Monday, February 26, 2007

Sofia Madeline has arrived



Born on the 26th Feb at 11:18am
Weighs just 2.5 kg

I'll leave the proper post till her Mum gets back from the hospital, which should be later on today. It happened very quickly. Rac's waters broke at 3am and she went back to bed. At 7am she complained of some period cramping, we left for the hospital at 9:30 and Sofia was with us at 11:18. It all went really well, we had the birthing room til 23:30 when Rac was transferred to the Maternity ward. She's now sharing a room with 3 other mothers.

p.s. Bump's name is subject to change - we have 6 weeks to register her.

Sunday, February 25, 2007

38 weeks pregnant


38 weeks pregnant 2, originally uploaded by Racmol.

Saturday, February 24, 2007

With a little bit of luck...


...this could be our new garden, complete with summer house, currently used as a studio by the resident painter. There is also a patio area for barbeques at the back door, which is where the photographer must have been standing when taking this photo.

We made an offer on a lovely 2-bedroom garden flat in Queen's Park today and the vendors accepted. Of course, under the English system it can all still fall through up until the very last minute, but we're very happy - and relieved not to have to give up our dream of living in Queen's Park and be exiled to South East London. It is just what we wanted, and just where we wanted to be as well.

It also means I can keep all my healthcare arrangements the same and we stay close to all the people we met in our antenatal class, my new friend Angeline and Geoff and Heike. And it's just a ten-minute walk to Kilburn on the Jubilee Line.

Bump's room has already got a large built-in bookcase and cunning shelving over the top of the door, which is inhabited at the moment by Paddington Bear, some of his friends and a lot of books and toy vehicles.

The only thing is that the vendors still have to find a new house to buy so it won't be a quick process. However, we could probably do with some breathing space to adjust to some of the other changes in our lives in the next few weeks...

Thursday, February 22, 2007

Pidgin Post - brief update due to sore hands

Carpal tunnel syndrome means typing hurts so, in brief:

  • my lens sold for £44 + 9.95 postage and packaging - a good result
  • we made an offer on a garden flat in Kingsgate Road, just around the corner here, and missed out by a couple of thousand pounds
  • 4/5ths of the baby's head can be felt above my pelvis
  • we went to see Hot Fuzz and loved it - could have been cut by about five minutes but in all other respects very funny and very English
  • I went to see another more expensive garden flat in Queen's Park that I absolutely love (example of fantasticness: a summer house in the garden that the current owners use as a painting studio) and I'm taking Jules to see it on Saturday
  • my blood pressure is slightly raised and there is protein in my pee (again) so I have to go back in tomorrow to have it checked out. They're muttering about beginnings of pre-eclampsia and induction again but last time this happened it turned out to be a minor blip so I'm not worried, just sick of having so many appointments
  • Angeline and I went for a swim at Swiss Cottage yesterday - turns out my new friend is 6 years younger than me (as well as five weeks less pregnant) so I don't feel so bad about how many lengths she fits into a half hour swim, or the fact that she's run 'oh, a few' half-marathons...

Tuesday, February 20, 2007

No longer an ebay virgin...

Good things about being a SAHM:
  1. local organic shopkeepers give you a complimentary pain au chocolat when you buy bulk raspberry leaf tea
  2. you've got time to sell stuff you don't want on ebay
Yes, I'm now a registered ebayer with feedback as both a buyer (of Jules's Christmas Wii) and a seller (Vanishing Acts by Jodi Picoult - not her best work...)

I'm also in the process of selling my 70-300mm lens, because it won't work with my digital SLR, only old-fashioned SLR cameras. It has so far attracted two bids and 20 people are watching it. Quite exciting really.

And yes, maybe I DO need to get out more.

In other news, today I descaled the kettle. Oh, the glamour of my life...

Monday, February 19, 2007

Househunting blues and baby coffee dates

I had the best day today - felt like a real lady who lunches and goes shopping for fun.

I met my new baby-friend Angeline (another MW wife) at Caffe Nero on Kilburn High Road and we discussed exciting topics like pushchairs, perineal massage, nursing bras and our husbands for two hours - before going baby-shopping at Adams.

We're meeting again on Wednesday for a swim and another coffee/herbal tea at Swiss Cottage. Revelation: staying at home is actually fun if you have someone to play with!

Note to Robert: Following your advice, I bought 10 (TEN) bibs today. Will that be enough to be getting on with, or (I'm guessing) woefully inadequate?

The house-hunting continues. We decided not to offer on the granny and grandad 1930s house in Brockley because Jules didn't like it as much as I did, even though it was nice and cheap. And if we're honest, we still want to live in a garden flat in Queen's Park as we love the area.

So the search goes on - kind of frustrating, but I figure every house we see gives us a better idea of what's out there. There is a garden flat that looks lovely that is available in Queens Park - right at the top end of our budget - so I'm going to see that one day this week hopefully.

In other news, Bump's All Blacks polarfleece arrived today (size 6-9 months) so now we're all ready for the World Cup! I also got him/her an All Blacks kiwi (small) to save Wom from harrassment...

Saturday, February 17, 2007

Thierry Henry, Arsenal v Blackburn Rovers


Taken by me with Jules's little IXUS. I'm quite proud that I actually got the ball in motion for once.


It was a lovely sunny day, but sadly a 0-0 draw. Better than a loss, of course, but disappointing all the same.

Friday, February 16, 2007

Scan results: smaller than average but still growing

So we went for the foetal growth scan plus doppler scan this morning. In short, the results are that the baby is still smaller than average but the abdominal circumference has picked up a bit and the bloodflow from the placenta and to the brain is all looking good.

So Bump listened to Jules's pep talks and has put a good effort into getting bigger. It's all a big relief that our baby can now come when it's ready and doesn't need to be induced.

And in other news, Matt got us tickets to Arsenal v Blackburn in the FA Cup tomorrow. Very excited - am practising all my chants.

"We love you, Fre-eddy because you've got no hair,
we love you, Fre-eddy because you're everywhere...'

Thursday, February 15, 2007

Standing up to the transport police

Today after I had lunch with Jules I leapt on a bus to come home and swiped my Oyster across the pad. The bus driver called me back as I hadn't had quite enough money on it and I hadn't noticed. So I got out a £10 note to give him and he said 'NO, you can buy tickets at that machine out there.'

Me: OK - are you going to wait for me?
Him: I can't wait - look at the traffic.
Me: Well, I'm not getting off then.

I went and sat down and my heart was pounding like crazy. I thought - I've done something illegal, I'm going to be kicked off the bus, there'll be a fine - what will my parents say?

Three stops down the road I realised that you CAN still buy bus tickets with cash, but the driver was just too lazy to cash my £10 note. So now I'm feeling very proud that I stood up for myself for once and didn't let the public transport nazis intimidate me. OK, so I thought I was committing a crime, but I did it very assertively!

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

Bump - nothing like his/her parents

Our baby has a smaller than average abdominal circumference. It used to be average and now the rate of growth has slowed down. The obstetrician is concerned and has ordered a doppler scan for this Friday. If the rate of growth is still slow, or has decreased further, then she may decide to induce two weeks early. Which would be (gulp) 25 February or thereabouts.

Obstetrician: But there's no point eating an extra 1000 calories a day - because if the placenta isn't delivering nutrition, it won't make any difference how much you eat.

Me: That's good - I'm not sure I could fit them in.

Obstetrician: Yes you could - it's just a couple of donuts!

Just to be on the safe side, I have been eating a lot anyway and taking my fish oil and prenatal supplements religiously. So we'll see, come Friday, if Bump has gained anything from this, or whether it will all go on my hips.

Every night Jules says sternly: 'Come on, Bump, you're still not pushing your mum's belly button out.'

Poor Bump - maybe s/he is just small. It's not a crime, is it?

Monday, February 12, 2007

Strange but true: bloggers blog for comments

Recently my number one commenter (no prizes for guessing who that is) said that he felt he was monopolising the comments area and should scale back his comments. This is just plain wrong, for two reasons.

No blogger ever complained about getting too many comments. What is discouraging, however, is when you devote a Sunday morning to creating a slideshow of your husband trying valiantly to assemble a crib and then NOONE COMMENTS. Did they see it? Did they like it? Did they laugh? You'll never know if they don't comment.

Some people of course prefer to email their comments privately, which is fine, but it does mean your blog displays 'O comments' at the bottom of your post, and no blogger likes to see that.

So let's have a reader poll - after 18 months of trekking with tigers (reborn as SAHM SAHM but different), is it worth continuing? Does anybody care one way or the other?

A mouse in the house

When we got home from house-hunting on Saturday afternoon, Jules said 'Ooh!' as he came in the front door. He'd just seen a mouse run down our stairs and into the cupboard under the stairs where the vacuum cleaner lives.

So that would explain that funny smell we hadn't been able to identify, but that seems like it's coming from under the floorboards in the living room and the spare bedroom.

Later, when we went looking in that cupboard for the screwdrivers to put the crib together with, the mouse ran out and into the kitchen and disappeared through a hole in the corner of the joinery between the oven and the sink. We haven't seen it since.

On Sunday I bought two traditional mouse traps and Jules baited them with peanut butter and we tried hard to put them somewhere where we wouldn't stand on them in the night. One is in the kitchen under the vegetable basket drawer thing and the other is behind the door in the spare bedroom.

My other choice was to go for a glue trap, which traps the mouse's paws in glue and then you have to 'dispatch the mouse humanely' yourself. How mean is that - leaving the mouse stuck in glue for hours awaiting its own demise? Or I could have had straightforward poison but then what happens if the mouse dies under the floorboards? Very smelly...

Anyway our mouse is too smart for us as both traps were untouched this morning. It is obviously too well-fed (it's quite a large mouse) and the peanut butter is not tempting enough.

Maybe the problem is that there are enough biscuit crumbs etc on the floor already to keep it going for some time. Note to self: sweep kitchen floor.

Ah well, I've always wanted a pet and this one is no different to my cat Fleur - she used to run away when I tried to get to know her better too. Like I said, this mouse is one smart cookie.

Sunday, February 11, 2007

Handyman Jules - kitset crib assembly 101


crib001, originally uploaded by Racmol.

Visit flickr for the brand new slideshow of Jules putting the crib together last night. Hours of entertainment...

Saturday, February 10, 2007

36 weeks pregnant


36 weeks pregnant, originally uploaded by Racmol.

- tomorrow, that is. 28 days to go! (Roughly speaking).

Friday, February 09, 2007

Thursday's snowfall, Gascony Ave


Snowfall, Gascony Ave, originally uploaded by Racmol.

Wednesday, February 07, 2007

By popular request: Isla sings 'Hey baby'

Now you can all watch Harold's video of Isla singing 'Hey baby' in the car on youtube.com.

If you enjoy it, why not rate the video (out of 5 stars) or leave a comment on Youtube?

Monday, February 05, 2007

Start of the new regime


New regime 1, originally uploaded by Racmol.

...and the blog's reinvention as a photo blog, due to the author's carpal tunnel syndrome. Expect few words for a few weeks.

Friday, February 02, 2007

Temo and his penguin are not to be separated

I thought I had blogged this story, but it turns out I had only emailed it to some people. So here is an excerpt from an email to Annie that explains what happened just before this photo was taken.

"Ruth's visit was good - Temo knows who we are now and is a lot more talkative.

Best moment was when we went to the Natural History Museum on Sunday and Temo picked up a large stuffed penguin from a low-level display in the museum store, rested his cheek against it as if appreciating its softness then bolted, sprinting the length of the shop and out into the museum foyer with the big dinosaur skeletons, clutching the penguin to his chest.

He was very disappointed to learn he couldn't take it home - Ruth is in that vigilant lets-not-collect-possessions state that you get into before a big trip."

A girl of many puddings


Sara enjoys a 'motley' of puddings, originally uploaded by Racmol.

Heath by birth, Heath by nature - why stop at one pudding when you can have a 'motley of puddings'? We think they meant a medley, but the translator who did the menu at our local Leon in Pigalle didn't speak perfect English!

I've just inherited Jules's old phone and saved the photos from it so you can now see a selection of puddings (among other subjects) from 2006 on flickr.

Thursday, February 01, 2007

The Galloping Uncle

For your viewing pleasure, here is one of Sara and Luke's videos from the day we all went to Brighton.

Watch The Galloping Uncle on Youtube